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I give up.

The first e-mail to my boss was bad enough and ate up a chunk of my day trying to explain the cesspool that is travel baseball in Chicago to men who have no clue how to comprehend what we do.

The second, accusing me of harassing and cyberstalking a youth player and threatening police action, is enough. It's bad enough that these are patent lies. What's worse is, you're messing with a man's life, his livelihood all in the name of travel baseball.

I give up. I quit. You won't see me around these forums anymore. You won't see a word printed in the Tribune or Sun-Times or Daily Herald.

It's sad that this is the level that baseball in Illinois has reached, but it's not worth losing your job over. So I'm out.
You will not see post on this forum again.

Good night and good luck,
Ben Diggle
Ben_Diggle=Ben Diggle
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Ben,I'm sorry this has happened. It is unthinkable that some poster with an agenda would stoop this low. Of course, you do have some recourse to take. The email that they sent does have an IP address and so, you can request the provider supply the name of a person if they have slandered you. It will require a lawyer and court order. I have a lawyer on retainer just for the purposes of moderating this site and believe me, with the changes in law and the unfortunate incident in Missouri, it can be dicey but cases can be made especially when that internet harrassment influences your job. In fact, there are good lawyers around that specialize in just this type of case. Please supply me with information and I'll also see what I can do. We certainly don't want members such as that on this site.

BTW, this was also done to me. My bosses understood.
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There is something seriously wrong with things if good people like Ben are run off by some faceless thug.

It is baseball people like Ben who make this site what it is, an incredible resource to those of us who are about to enter the scary waters of college recruiting.

The goon who is causing this trouble is doing nothing to help any of the high school baseball players in this state. He is only taking valuable people and information away from people who truly need it.

Thanks a lot.
Cmon Ben you have got to be a fighter ...not a quitter .

Dont let these schmucks get to you and ruin your livelihood .

You must have some other recourse in this matter .

Justice will prevail if you can stay the course and help find out who/whom is behind this garbage . You will get more satisfaction at that point than by quitting now .

Why would your boss even take this moron seriously ?
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Originally posted by Mr. Nobody:
Cmon Ben you have got to be a fighter ...not a quitter .

Dont let these schmucks get to you and ruin your livelihood .

You must have some other recourse in this matter .

Justice will prevail if you can stay the course and help find out who/whom is behind this garbage . You will get more satisfaction at that point than by quitting now .

Why would your boss even take this moron seriously ?


Mr. Nobody, while I agree, you have to be in this position to understand. It almost cost me my marriage. I believe it did cost me a promotion. The instant I can get any of my administration to say so, I'm going to clean up because I'm going to sue the person who did this to me. I a court of law, you have to be able to prove either slander or harm. Ben, you do what is right for you. You certainly have been a very positive influence on this site.
Having been in Ben's position, I can tell you that he probably doesn't want anyone to contact his boss. You see, right now, his bosses are wondering what is up. They are not "in the know" about the baseball climate of Illinois. While there might be tons of support, that isn't the issue. The issue is that Ben doesn't want is boss's attention constantly brought back to this issue. The attention will simply be too much and Ben will pay for it. At least that is what happened in my position. If Ben wants help, he can pm some of us and ask. Otherwise, and again speaking from experience, let's let this lay for a while.
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Originally posted by oilcan:
I dont know how to use the private message function on this board and I dont know any of your email addresses....

I am the President of the Outlaws Organization. I'd like someone to give me a little backgound on this situation.

email me at

poweralleyacademy@comcast.net


Why don't you just call Ben?
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Originally posted by SIBullets:
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Originally posted by oilcan:
I dont know how to use the private message function on this board and I dont know any of your email addresses....

I am the President of the Outlaws Organization. I'd like someone to give me a little backgound on this situation.

email me at

poweralleyacademy@comcast.net


Why don't you just call Ben?



I have spoken to Ben. Understandably he's pretty upset. I just wanted to hear from others also who could provide some background.
just had to jump in on this. we all feel for Ben, and this is a wakeup call to all who read or visit here, you never know who your talking to on these, you could be talking to an adult or could happen to be a kid. some of these fights are ending up outside of the friendle confines here. CoachB am a long time fan, just hope you are careful with offering up the identies of ip addressea and so forth, could be a kids laptop and the parents arent even aware. releasing info on a kid may get you in a situation like Ben/ its probably better to be safe than sorry. and cyber stalk and harrassing of anyone is bad particularly of kids, lets not lose sight of that. hope the best for ben
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Originally posted by holister3:
just had to jump in on this. we all feel for Ben, and this is a wakeup call to all who read or visit here, you never know who your talking to on these, you could be talking to an adult or could happen to be a kid. some of these fights are ending up outside of the friendle confines here. CoachB am a long time fan, just hope you are careful with offering up the identies of ip addressea and so forth, could be a kids laptop and the parents arent even aware. releasing info on a kid may get you in a situation like Ben/ its probably better to be safe than sorry. and cyber stalk and harrassing of anyone is bad particularly of kids, lets not lose sight of that. hope the best for ben



I disagree. I worked in the IT field for 15 years and everyone should know that your computer has an IP address. If someone wants to find out who you are, they will find you. What Coach said was only stating the obvious. It isn't a secret about the IP address. Also, whether it is a kid or not I believe his or her parents are responsible for them and will pay the price if found liable for slander or defamation of character. I've only been reading this web site for about a year and love about 99% of what I read. Unfortunately there is always going to be that 1% that has no respect for anyone.
holister3, thanks for being a fan. However, you're in a very excusive group! I think there is one other member. Smile For all to know, along with my responsibilities as a moderator come certain responsibilities. We do not share names with anyone who is not active as a moderator on this site. Believe me, Ben has many friends throughout this state and I'd suspect this is one of those "It’s a Wonderful Life" moments since so many have pmed me wanting to know what I know. Rather, I have suggested to Ben the route I took and explained my experience with him. It does involve hiring a lawyer. I also will say that besides an IP Address, there is so much more information contained in an email address. For example, if I work for a company that makes a product or provides a service and that is contained on my email, I can do simple searches and eventually find that company. Now, I can find who works for that company. Some people also use their names as a part of email. Of course that is easy to track down. That is what I laid out for Ben. Again, I don't think it necessary to use my abilities as a moderator here to do any of that. What the IP address does do is enable a person to verify their other research. A person's livelihood is at stake. This isn't something to "let kids be kids" if it is kids OR to take sitting back. I hope this clears everything up with regards to my actions.
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This is not some kid pulling a prank!

This is someone full of hate and envy! Someone who is out to destroy innocent people and he (they) knows exactly what he is doing. This is a dangerous person who cowardly hides in the shadows. A person without an ounce of class or decency. It could even be someone who is guiding young kids.
This all sounds very familiar .


Someone who likes to pretend himself as representing an organization he has nothing to do with . Has tried it here on this site many times in the past . The names he is using in this instance are all ficticous .


It is unlikely he will ever see any of his antics --such as this one --all the way thru because if he did he would have to reveal his true identity .

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