One of my son's high school teammates has an early commit to Pepperdine. He's a 2014, RHP,very good pitcher,4.00 student at a rigorous college prep,great work ethic,good character kid,good parents,and a great teammate.So it does happen. His mom told me he had always liked the Pepperdine baseball team growing up.
I was happy for the boy ! However, my 2014 son initially felt quite different about it. He was somewhat mad because he himself had not received any looks or offers. I explained to him that pitchers are at the top of the food chain in the baseball world.I told him to just keep working hard and everything will work out.Don't worry about things you cannot control.All the stuff that many of the dads on this board have had to tell their sons.
A couple of days later my son was telling his travel ball coach about the early commit.His coach told my son that was great news and everyone on the team will benefit.He went on to tell my son how he was not on anyone's radar going into his senior year at Ranch Bernardo High School.However,Hank Blalock,Matt Wheatland,& Scott Heard, all teammates of his, were being heavily scouted by MLB and big time D-1 colleges.He ended up getting a baseball scholarship to The University of San Diego,played minor league ball,and came back to USD to finish his degree. Not bad for someone who was not on anyone's radar
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A day or so after that my son told his personal trainer about the early commit.He too said that was great news and everyone will benefit.He then told my son about how playing with Benji Gil in high school got everyone on the team chances to be seen.Chances they might not have ever had.Lots of scouts were at at every Castle Park High School game that year.Benji was the 19th pick of the 1991 draft,and a couple of his teammates ended up playing D-1 college baseball.Unfortunately,3 players from that same team(including my son's trainer)never played beyond high school. They were more talented than the 2 that played college ball.However,they never took school seriously and never got that chance.To this day they ALL regret not working hard in the classroom......
My son got over his initial disappointment.Realized that he's happy for his teammate,and at the end of the day all he can control is his attitude and work ethic.Everything will work out in the end
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Gee, I tried telling him this stuff.What do I know ? I'm just a dad...... don't have the street cred that his coaches do LOL !