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Yes, its certainly true that there are 'idiot' HS coaches...just like there are 'idiots' in the general population. Our older son experienced an 'idiot' or two in HS (along with some good guys) and our younger son is experiencing the antithesis of idiot.
But some of these 'idiots' behave as they do because of 'idiots' running summer or travel ball teams...or even moreso, 'idiot parents' who think their son IS an "elite" player from an "elite" travel team, and therefore that translates into "must-be-a-star" at his HS.
We've all either witnessed or heard about the parent who makes an appointment with the HS coach and his AD to "discuss" how their son should be/must be a starter on varsity as a freshman because he's a superstar on his "travel elite team" that won 13 trophies this past summer.
Justbaseball nails another angle of the arguement quite well. Travel ball is way too full of people just like described above.
You see, the problem isn't high school coaches or travel ball coaches, the problem is IDIOTS.And they are easily found if you just take a moment to look for them.
Everyone, no matter where you come down on this topic, is a little bit different. I could get on my soapbox and go on for too long about this and a few other choice topics, but you'd all fall asleep or decide that if I'm not an idiot, I might be a lunatic. Instead, I'll simply say this. Everyone needs to make an effort to be better, no matter whether you're on the high school, club or parent side. Make excellence the goal. Make helping the kids the goal, not helping one's self.
One of my big pet peeves is somewhat similar to this issue we've been debating, and that is the 'seminar, clinic, showcase or camp' business that has really taken off the last few years. While many of these are good, worthwhile and run by quality people; there are also way too many that are run simply as another profit center for people more interested in their own well being, as opposed to the players and parents they draw in. Earlier, I alluded to a seminar that we ran last weekend that had a group of highly respected pros as speakers. The biggest part of our motivation for doing that was to 'give back', but there was another angle at work too. That other angle was to poke some of these promoters in the eye by doing this for free, and opening it to the general public. We couldn't think of a better way to give people a reason to not sign up for some of these seminars than getting better speakers and making it free. I'm saying this for one reason - I wish more people would do this around the country. Why does it always have to be about the almighty dollar for some, and ego for others? I will say this, the only reason those pros decided to do this, is because they knew that nobody was going to make a dime off of it, and that the only people who would get anything out of it would be the kids and parents who came to hear them.
We need more people who'll take that approach.