I just happened onto this thread, I am a little late, but this is the type information that this web-site was created for. We do all need to help players/parents through the steps to the next level.
I too, think linear is incorrect in stating that all college coaches lie. FO has it right. TPM has done what we posters should all do in order to give helpful, useful information to others. Be honest, good or bad. BEE, luck also plays a role. In my son's fresh. year, A rs soph was given start at first of season, son broke into the line-up when starter developed "intense intestinal upset"
Son sealed the deal with his bat.
Son was told, at unofficial visit, that best player would play. Son just believed he could be best player. Son was strongly recruited by several "top schools, better progrgams", but filed away recruitment as soon as coach told him unconditionally he would start.
As a side note, players/parents...do not get discouraged, do not give up easily. Has taken son 2 years to listen to his body, properly stretch and weight train. In HS and LL everything came easy, thought he was superman, a little hard-headed
Luckily, for my son, he picked the right place to play, Coach knows how hard son has worked, likes son (increased his scholly after awful season), got him all the medical help he needed, and has been honorable in his word. Main thing, son never gave up, learned from his pain, continues to work hard/smart and never stopped dreaming...even when it seemed unrealistic to everyone else. First game 1/28/06...I'll let you all know how it goes.
Fungo, TPM, Bee, Its, TR, Prepster, and others, thank you for all the very helpful, encouraging information you give to all.