I'll try for Cliff Notes:
I coach a 13U USSSA / AAU team. I've had the same group pretty much for almost 2 years. (3) of my guys are eligible to try out for JV. (Three different local high schools). They know that I FULLY support SCHOOL ball as the PRIORITY. One kid was invited to Winter Workouts (he'll probably be the best player on their team by a long shot. Great kid, great athlete. Strong, super fast, cannon for an arm...and his power and average at the plate have done nothing but improve in last year).
The JV "Assistant" coach made the rather loud announcement that once they are involved with the program (including Winter Workouts, before they have even made the team) they will not be involved with ANY other form of baseball until the season is over.
Several other kids that played on this JV team as 8th graders last year are freaked out, since they play local rec ball with their friends and several play travel. None of them are pitching tons of innings (two teams) and none of them have ever had a conflict issue between the two. School ball is ALWAYS the priority.
My kid and his parents are kind of in shock. I told them not to worry..but it's hard for them not to.
The "coach" in question is to risk a pun...a bit questionable himself... He told this kid that he wasn't a pitcher. His other Coach showed up at a tourney where he watched the kid come in and close out a game.. (great velo even at 60'6" and since we've given him a consistent delivery and offspeed pitch he truly has filthy stuff for a young 'un on the big field).
Then the "coach" comes to the kid and tells him how he's going to teach him a "Big League" Change up and "turn him" into a pitcher.
I know how this type of stuff is. I'm just looking for something to tell the kid mainly to keep him from thinking he has to choose between school ball (remember JV) and travel. The whole goal for me coaching travel was to help the kids who wanted it, to get to play HS Ball...
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