cabbagedad posted:Steve A. posted:...My opinion, again, opinion, is that yes, winning is important & the goal of the team. I get that. I can tell you that the vast majority of people you may think are impressed by your winning really could not care less. ..
Steve A, I say this knowing your background... I know you have made a run as a P in the minors and you now coach a 13u. I predict that in four years, your perspective on this particular point will change. HS players, parents, boosters, coaches, community supporters, AD's and others are quite interested in winning. Do the players shake off the loss as soon as they get on the bus or in the car? Yup, usually. But there is a huge difference in being part of a winning program and a losing one and HS V is the level where that spotlight starts to shine. You will come to find that it is quite different as a coach than it was as a player.
Those same players who shake off the loss in a minute after it happens will remember very clearly 10-20-30-40 years from now if they had the big hit to win league or state or beat their big rival. Does it matter to the rest of the world? No. But it will matter to each of those HS players you eventually coach over the years. You will also find that in most HS's, this is the top level, the final stop they will reach with baseball. That's where it may take a while for you to grasp since you made it some levels beyond. Competing and winning games at this level is the peak of their baseball careers. It matters to them. You will be charged with allowing for that to happen. Along with developing high-character young men, you will want to help them in their goals to win league or state or against cross-town rival. Letting a young catcher call your V game with that in the balance may not be quite as appealing when you are in the middle of it. Just a prediction...
Hi Cabbage, Thanks for the response. Definitely makes sense & I appreciate the perspective. My take on it has probably been too heavily influenced by some of the coaching I have seen that has been way too heavy handed at the younger levels. Again, thanks.