Trying to compete on a college baseball field involves being willing to confront risk. For most, the risks are many and are started, at least as a freshman, during a time of tremendous uncertainty associated with being away from home and in college.
With that said, I would think think the majority love college baseball. The experience in a well run program, at any level, can be exhilarating. Necessarily that would be true when more is risked, more effort than the player and family thought possible was expended, and after 3-4 years, there are wonderful results, amazing team experiences, and a degree.
One thing I loved/love about our son's college coach is that college and baseball were not all about college and baseball. One aspect he discussed from the very first conversation was about baseball allowing our son to see areas of the County he might never visit and to meet and experience people and places which would open his eyes and mind because of how different, and usually wonderful, they would be as contrasted with Northern CA. Every aspect of the coaches insights proved true.
The main reason I started this thread was to help many realize that playing college baseball involves risk and the bigger the risks, the bigger rewards. Implied in the message is the concept that trying to "negotiate" or "extract" guarantees for our son's in college, whether for a roster spot or scholarship, might be ill-conceived.
While I realize many could question this, I think our son's learn many and more valuable life lessons which will apply long after college and baseball by taking their own risks, making their own choices, making mistakes along the way and truly "earning" every minute of playing time they spend on a college baseball diamond.
While very few will ever dogpile on a diamond in a CWS, many will "dogpile" at different points or in different ways through the experience of college baseball.
The experience of college baseball truly should be what our sons make of it. Most college coaches want that as much for our son's when they recruit them as we do, and some possibly more. Really good college baseball coaches see talent and ability in our sons which we don't and our sons don't.
It is so rewarding at the end of 3-4 years, when our son, and his family, realize the process was tough, but the coach was right in what he saw and projected. So many times that kid playing his last college baseball game as a junior or senior is so much different than the one who left home just a few years back. We cannot underestimate how a "good" college baseball experience contributes to that development, especially when our son "earned" it and made all the tough choices to get him in a position to "earn" it.