Many pages back, TxMom wrote;
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Originally posted by TxMom:
First, you hear it all the time, but making adjustments at every level is key to success. However, learning HOW to make adjustments often requires struggle combined with guidance from people who have "been there." Everyone at the top understands this. Its probably why they don't make life too easy in the minors and why most coaches have Big League experience. Some call this "old school," but I think it’s just a proven method for success. In looking back, I can see how our son's struggles both on and off the field prepared him for the future...how they taught him flexible thinking and strengthened his mental approach.
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Finally, I now better understand that it’s important for me as a parent to portray a genuine sense of peace with everything that happens in his world...especially for our his sake. More than anything, these guys need people they can count on for stability and hope. They live a crazy, exciting life and everything they do at work is public knowledge. Most of us can hide our daily successes and failures, but theirs are broadcast live, published on the web, and analyzed by everyone from GMs to the neighbor down the street. They need someone who can sincerely say, "Everything is going to be fine," no matter what happens. I'm still learning how to be that person, but I hope I'm getting a little better at it over time.
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Of course there is good and bad, fair and unfair, golden chances and getting shut out in the minors. Sort of like, I don't know ---- life?
The biggest "Unfair" is the draft. In every other profession, the top talent can research and interview with the most attractive employers to them and their needs; in baseball, you play for the club that picked you. (With rare exceptions, mostly immaterial to this board) That club could have the worst rep for developing players at your position, could be GU, could be anything bad, and the only choice the drafted player has is to not play.
But our guys are still lining up for the job. Guess they want it.
Draft position and its impact on chances given is one part of the picture. And draft position will never, ever change. We can't do a blasted thing about it, either.
So, keeping in mind TxMom's wise words, we can, as parents, be aware of draft position's potential impact --- and be aware that our sons know exactly what it means --- without dwelling on it. There's a lot more to this experience than draft position. And our job, as the player's Safe Harbor, will be better accomplished by concentrating on the things that will help him cope rather than a single, unchangeable occurance.