No, I'm quite serious. Why does someone choose to become a college baseball coach? Is it because they love the game, and they love the challenge of fitting together a team and coaching it to win games?
My son became a coach because he loves the game and just like you, loves to teach, instruct, whatever you want to call it and enjoys the rewards it brings, not just the salary and benefits. There are good coaches and mediocre coaches at every level and every sport. The most successful are the ones that care about what they do and the young people they work with.
It's a hard gig, but rewarding one as well. And yes, I agree that there are many programs with coaches that don't develop their staff as they should. I know some coaches that have gone from program to program and still are pretty meh. I don't get that.
For those not familiar, end of last season, quite a lot of mid D1 coaches lost their job. Good coaches. The problem IMO, if you dont win, donors, alumni, advertisers don't give the money that programs need to be successful. They demand change and hold back on giving if it doesnt happen. So this is not a phenomenon that occurs in just big programs.
IMO, the secret to success is in the recruiting. I know of quite a few coaches who were once scouts for ML teams. If a coach doesn't have the proper staff to recruit successfully than he needs to go find players that are a good fit for the program somewhere else. The portal is now being used, perhaps in some cases, as the primary tool to recruit.
Coaches will never tell you that they have no time to develop players. If they do, stay away.
As far as the issue of over recruiting, blame the system.