quote:Originally posted by Tiger Paw Mom:
rz was responding to what you said. You brought it up.
TPM and rz1, I did not bring it up, I was responding to a question from infielddad and topic was development of kids in one environment or another. Desire to play is a factor at any age and for many reasons.
We agree on a few points, 10, 11, 12 is definitly about fun, development, and developing love for the game. Even at that age though, I saw some kids playing REC ball that have no desire to be there, yet their parents take them to play anyway (good for the kid to get out in the sun and all that). Park rules usually require a couple innings play time for all players and a lot of coaches are moving kids around to different positions without regard to the outcome of the game. THIS IS ALL GOOD! Some kids improve and would improve in any environment. Many just do not have the desire to throw at home or otherwise practice unless they are with the team. All this adds up to be baseball that is usually not very competative. WHICH IS OK. After all they are only 10 -12.
Travel ball offers PARENTS an alternative to this and a place to put their kids with others kids that, like mine wanted to throw every day and play with other kids that have that kind of desire. YES, I do believe you can see that kind of desire in kids at 10, 11, and 12. Is this a function of the interaction with their parents, you bet it is. Some kids may develop this desire without the parents involvement but not the majority. When he was 11 I could not let some kids play catch with my son at practice because he threw much harder than some and I was afraid they would get hurt from not being able to catch it, and some kids even avoided throwing with him.
Many parks are loosing talented kids to travel ball because those parks do not support travel ball and many sactioning bodies (Dixie Youth, LL, etc) actually prohibit such teams under their charters or rules. We had this situation and decided it would be bettter to play with kids that had the same desires as our kids (and parents)
Even though my son is now 17, I can still see him at 10 and 12 playing on teams that could turn double plays, get the throw to second for an out on a steal, and that "ear-to-ear" smile on his face the first game he was able to lead off while on the base (at age 10). These things would not have been a part of REC ball at 10 and 12.
Did it make a difference in the player he is today? I can't say for sure, but after playing back in the park at 11, HE preferred travel ball at 12 and beyond. I am certainly glad we had that option.