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I ask them this......how much playing time did your son get on the Varsity in HS as a Freshman?
To a degree, this is an apple & oranges comparison. Though I do agree with your basic premise
As I told my son, he may have been the best player on his High School team, when he gets to college, most of those guys will be one of the top players on their HS teams. He is competing against all top players (at least mostly).
Whereas in High School the kids going out are the best of their LL teams as well as a lot of weaker playerss. Many HS teams don't have the luxury of having the best of all the LL teams feeding them, so the best players have a spot handed to them.
Many of these kids have never really had to compete for a starting spot. When they get to college and they actually have to earn a spot, it is hard for some parents to accept and start making excuses for little Johnny. Obviously it's not little Johnny's fault, he's the best player on the team. So the coach must be stockpiling players, or only plays his scholarship players or pick an excuse.