Originally Posted by bballman:
Opening weekend. bballson just found out he is not starting this weekend. Not sure how he feels about it, but I'm a little bummed. He worked hard this spring, didn't give up any runs in the intersquads, so I was kind of thinking he'd get the nod. They have a freshman starting one game, a JC transfer another and a D1 transfer who started for us early last year and tore his UCL in his second start going over the weekend.
I told him to hang in there, he'll get his shot. They know he can start from last year and maybe they want to see how the two new guys do and see how the other guys does after his TJ last year. Who knows, it's all a mystery to me (and bballson - Haha). I do know this, he will get a chance at some point and he needs to be ready for it. He's just a sophomore on a team with 16 pitchers, a lot of who are JC & D1 transfers. Big competition. He's mentally tough so I'm probably taking it harder than him. I'll be following on live stats though, I know that!!
Welcome Baseball Season!!
bballman,
Your report about the upcoming weekend prompts a recollection:
My son's Freshman year, he entered the season as a likely mid-week starter and weekend reliever, if needed. The weekend starters were slated to be two stud Freshmen (both of whom were ultimately taken in the first round of the pro draft after their Junior years) and a returning Freshman All-American.
After the first few weeks, it was apparent that none of the 3 weekend starters was settling easily into their appointed roles. As a result, my son found himself being the chief "fireman." He'd get called into a weekend game to settle things down; and, if he didn't throw more than several innings, he'd start the Tuesday or Wednesday game.
Well, as the season wore on, the two Freshmen starters generally became more reliable; but, the returning Soph did not. ...so much so that the coaches stopped designating him the Sunday starter in the "Upcoming Weekend" report on their website. Instead, the "Sunday starter" line on that webpage began showing nothing more than the phrase, "To Be Determined."
What that really meant was that if my son didn't need to relieve on Friday or Saturday, he'd start on Sunday. Otherwise, they'd start the better-rested Sophomore.
Care to guess what nickname my son developed mid-season in the clubhouse? "T.B.D." LOL!!!
The point here is that the most reliable pitchers end up throwing the most innings over the course of a regular season. However, until things come to sort themselves out, it can play havoc with a family's scheduling and expectations. Until they do, you never really know when your son might pitch...and that's a drag.
I found myself nodding my head in agreement with everything you wrote in your last paragraph. That's both the attitude and approach every young player's parents need to have.
He'll get his chance, and he'll be ready for it.
Best wishes to him and his teammates.