There are all kinds of travel ball before the level where kids are playing showcases. It's impossible to lump them into one category of travel ball and condemn it or praise it.
At the preteen level there's academy based travel and dad coached travel. Sometimes parents find coaches without kids to coach their dad administrated travel team. There are community based teams. There are rec all star teams that proceed into travel. There are teams that are league only, tournament only and a cross breed of the two. There are programs with recruiting. There are programs with boundaries.
I don't believe where a kid plays, rec, travel or any form of travel above as a preteen has a bearing on whether or not he will play high school or college ball. What matters in the preteen years is instruction on fundamentals that will carry over to the full size field, building a passion for the game and learning how to compete.
The delusion at the preteen level is believing because a kid is a preteen stud it will continue all the way through to high school and college. Although there are things to look for assuming the kid maintains the passion and work ethic. The other delusion is spending thousands on lesson and an academy team with the delusion talent can be purchased.
I felt fortunate LL and Ripken ball in our area remained strong and still is. My son's primary ball was Ripken, then LL when we moved and all stars. But he did play some travel as a secondary team. At nine and ten the Ripken all star team also played in Ripken and LL weekend invitationals from mid June to the end of July. At eleven and twelve his LL all star teammates plus a few more (as to not break the rules) played in a USSSA Sunday doubleheader league concurrently with the LL season. All stars played into August both years. We had all August for vacation. School didn't start until after Labor Day.
The middle school years present a new issue. The same kinds of travel teams exist as preteen ball. I found with the exception of one academy organization most weren't getting the kind of player where I felt they were doing anything more than taking parent's money on a dream. The kids weren't making the showcase teams when they got older. Even on that one a poster here told me only four kids from the 13u team made the 16u team.
If you see your kid as a potential high school player you have to look at the instruction and coaching players get from the local Jr Legion, Babe Ruth, Connie Mack, etc. programs. I didn't have a comfort level with any of these programs in our area. I formed a travel team that was not costly with three other coaches who also played college ball and had youth baseball coaching experience. Our objective was to select LL and Ripken all stars from the area we felt had potential to play high school ball and provide instruction, polish and a competitive environment. Once again we finished by the end of July and had August free for vacation.
For the most part the better 13u and 14u travel teams were those coached by dads with baseball experience. These teams were not expensive. From 13u to 16u ours was $500 to 600 for ten summer tournaments. When we did fall ball in 16u that was $300 for five tournaments.
Situations differ in various areas of the country. As we get to showcasing the world all comes together with the same objective so I'm not going to get into that.
Does a kid have to play showcase tournament ball? No. But at the least he should do some individual showcases. Waiting at the home field to be discovered isn't the best idea except for can't miss studs who will get asked to play for a travel team anyway.
Are there delusional parents? Sure they exist at all ages. There seem to be a lot less as the players age through the journey.
Are there academies and instructors you could say are stealing money? Well, maybe they aren't earning it and selling a false set of goods and services. But it's on the players and parents to do the research.
As a kid I came through LL, Babe Ruth and Legion ball. They were all great experiences. But after LL the road I took was not the right road for my son. Times change. Circumstances vary from region to region.
This post is certainly long winded. But I couldn't do it any other way without leaving a lot of holes. Even so, there will be others with different circumstances who will have a different experience and disagree.