Picked, believe me, I can relate too. I think the kids take it better than we do sometimes. At least it seems like my son does. Takes a lot to have a bad outing, then wait a week to try to prove yourself again.
My son is in his sophomore year and I have not been down to see him pitch yet. Seems he is doing pretty good. Has pitched 10 innings in intersquads and given up 4 runs. I know 2 were on a 2 run bomb (his description). Said he made a mistake and left one belt high down the middle. I asked him one time, have the coaches said anything to you? His response - Nope. Like a couple hours later, he comes to me and says, oh yeah, Coach Collins told me no one on this team can hit you when you're throwing strikes. I'd say that's something - Haha. Kids.
The other day he started and went three innings. When I texted him to ask how he did. Said he didn't have his best stuff and gave up 2 in 3 innings. One in the 1st, one in the 2nd. He was mad about the one in the second. Said it was a blooper over 3rd, hit and run to put runners on 1st & 3rd, then a blooper over 2nd to score the run. He hates those little bloopers just over the infield. The good news was that coach used him as an example to the team. Apparently, one of the pitchers gave up 4 in an inning. He pointed out my son and said he obviously didn't have his best stuff, but limited the damage to just one run in an inning. He said that's what everyone needed to try to do.
So, there is always a silver lining. Hope to get down there one day this week to watch an intersquad, then next week they play their two fall games against some local JUCOs. I'll go down to the one he's pitching in.