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It would seem that far too many players, and particularly far too many parents, overestimate ability, and then cry foul when it was simply a matter of a a poor fit and unrealistic expectations of both program and son.
Don't coaches understand that parents/players often over estimate their abilities? IF a coach recruits a kid and the kid doesn't work out, Who is to blame?
I say that it is the coach! He either did not do his homework, or doesn't possess the skill to evaluate a recruit. I don't see how you could blame a kid/parent for making the mistake of signing with a program that he is not qualified for! The coach knows his team, knows his needs, knows his conference, knows the level of competition....the kid/parent doesn't. If a coach recruits my kid, he is telling me/kid that based upon HIS EXPERTISE in evaluating talent, that my son fits in his program.
I have been around baseball a long time and I can say that I DO NOT have the ability to judge whether or not my kid can play for any given program. If a coach sees something in my kid he likes, I am at the mercy of the coaches judgement/honor/ability.
I understand and appreciate competition, but if a coach is cutting kids every year because they don't have the goods, isn't there a problem?
I have not been through this recruiting stuff yet(obviously) but I am having trouble grasping how peaple are willing to give a coach a free pass when he makes a mistake on a recruit and cuts him like no big deal. It has been said here on hsbbw that for the majority of kids; you don't choose the coach, the coach chooses you. Think about that!
Keep in mind, I am posting regarding cutting kids, not playing time.
So whats the point of this helpless rant...the point is we are talking about naive kids placing trust in the coach(expert) to do the right thing. And that means sticking with the kids you recruit.
I know it is not always possible to keep every recruit, but cutting kids should be the exception, not the the standard. I think that coaches with class, coaches that believe in themselves, coaches that believe in their recruits, and coaches with the winning spirit to dig in with HIS boys and make it happen are the ones that do it right.
Coaches that have to over recruit and cull to make it happen, well............................
I know there are a lot of coaches out there that do it the right way, I sure hope one of them sees something they like in my kid.