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quote:If anyone remembers Terry Mulholland who pitched in the World Series for the Phillies, he is a relative of the family,
Then my best advice is to call Terry and ask HIM for advice! He's been there, knows people who are connected to organizations, and is probably a great judge of a player's (especially a pitcher's) abilities.
He needs innings. He needs good competition to challenge him. He needs to fail. He needs to learn. He needs good instruction. He needs to be seen. It is a process that needs to be managed. Good luck.
quote:Originally posted by Dad04:
Mul,
He needs innings. He needs good competition to challenge him. He needs to fail. He needs to learn. He needs good instruction. He needs to be seen. It is a process that needs to be managed. Good luck.
I agree with you 100%! The only problem that we face is that I am extremely busy with going to college full-time in the medical field which involves lengthy clincal hours, and my wife and I both work full-time in one of our local hospitals. This being said, I don't have much free time to designate to my son's efforts until a year from now. Also, the biggest obstacle we have to overcome is the financial needs that it takes to get him away from home to participate at a higher level on a travel team. I would love to be able to afford him that luxury, although until next year I cannot. I would love to find a higher level team closer to home which would allow him the opportunity to showcase his talents! I am just stepping out to see what kind of opportunities are available to him before summer gets here. I know that someday he will get to the next level, I am just trying to save him some time and frustration in getting there. Thanks again to all!
Careful - there is a very long road ahead and part of it is keeping your head
I don't think Catcher09 was implying that you had lost your head. It was, however, good future advice, when down the road the 'learning experiences' happen and when you pay your dues. Confidence (in moderation) can be one of the best traits to ever have.
P.S.- Don't let posters get the best of you, most of the time they're probably joking, and its a jungle anyway. Best of luck to you and your son.
quote:Originally posted by moundeverest:
Mul-
I don't think Catcher09 was implying that you had lost your head. It was, however, good future advice, when down the road the 'learning experiences' happen and when you pay your dues. Confidence (in moderation) can be one of the best traits to ever have.
P.S.- Don't let posters get the best of you, most of the time they're probably joking, and its a jungle anyway. Best of luck to you and your son.
Thank you - you said it better then me
Somewhere in the original thread was mention of the Midland Redskins that might be the right ticket for you this summer, especially with the financial advantages that program offers. I don't know anything about them other than what has been posted on this site.
The program didn't fit with my son's plans for the summer. He said that he would not have been allowed to participate in other, higher-profile events if he played for Midland. But, I don't think his choice should indicate that Midland is anything less than a top rated program that will get your son exposure.
i don't agree that they will find your son without help. i say that because there is the chance they won't, no matter how small a chance it's one that isn't worth taking. look for a mlb tryout this summer they are free, if he can throw like you say that will light the candle. there are many showcases out there,but this summer is a very important summer.between jr sr year. between the indians and the reds you should be able to find a scout that can recomend your son to a showcase.or at least lend some credability to his ability. then doors should open. don't wait for them to come to you. good luck in the process.
quote:Originally posted by Mulholland:quote:Originally posted by Dad04:
Mul,
He needs innings. He needs good competition to challenge him. He needs to fail. He needs to learn. He needs good instruction. He needs to be seen. It is a process that needs to be managed. Good luck.
I agree with you 100%! The only problem that we face is that I am extremely busy with going to college full-time in the medical field which involves lengthy clincal hours, and my wife and I both work full-time in one of our local hospitals. This being said, I don't have much free time to designate to my son's efforts until a year from now. Also, the biggest obstacle we have to overcome is the financial needs that it takes to get him away from home to participate at a higher level on a travel team. I would love to be able to afford him that luxury, although until next year I cannot. I would love to find a higher level team closer to home which would allow him the opportunity to showcase his talents! I am just stepping out to see what kind of opportunities are available to him before summer gets here. I know that someday he will get to the next level, I am just trying to save him some time and frustration in getting there. Thanks again to all!
Summer between Jr. and Sr. years is when focus on him will be sharpest. Plan around that time frame for maximum exposure. The Midland program costs a player nothing. A $500 investment plus expenses in a Perfect Game event could result in a 50% scholarship, or more. It needs to be planned for.
quote:Originally posted by 20dad:
i don't agree that they will find your son without help. i say that because there is the chance they won't, no matter how small a chance it's one that isn't worth taking. look for a mlb tryout this summer they are free, if he can throw like you say that will light the candle.
If your son is really any good, a scout will probably hear about him and come to see him. Most full-time pro scouts have networks of coaches and other people who recommend talent to them. Also, if your son plays against a team with a good player who is being scouted, then your son may get noticed that way.
Going to open ML try-outs is a good suggestion, if just for the experience.
we don't have an over abundunce of mlb scouts in our area, but my thoughts were by going to a try-out, he may impress the scout and many scouts have college connections that may help out.
i still believe you need to help yourself be found.but that depends a lot on what part of the country your from too.
Reality check.
You had better check the odds of playing pro ball on the main website. Am I saying he will not? No. I'm saying you better be a bit more humble and have a **** solid backup plan.
You point about pro scouts helping kids college wise is so threu---I think I told this story before but it is worth retelling here in this scenario
Returning from Jupiter two years ago one of our players was in the airport when he was approached by a MLB scout who had seen him play with us---they talked at length and the talk was a the convincer for the young man who at that point was undecided about his plans after HS---today he is a frosh starting at 1B for a Division III powerhouse here in the Northeast
Again that common thread appears--being the right place at the right time to be seen---the more you are seen the more the odds are in your favor of something good happening---PROVIDED YOU HAVE THE TALENT
just curious if this kid made it to the big time?
I read the whole page before realizing this was almost 10 years ago! I too get curious about "where are they now". He was a can't miss in his dad's eyes. I joined this site wondering if my kid could make Little Leagues All-stars. That became making the HS team, that became wondering if college ball was possible. I'll make my last post the day I'm convinced the baseball is over so everyone will know what happened. One data point in the millions of kids who ever aspired to pro-ball. Each one is a unique story.
There was just a little bit of Bilal in his posts, with a slightly different syntax. Same vein, though.
I think Bilal is the only one I "follow". Miss the guy.
2016Dad posted:I read the whole page before realizing this was almost 10 years ago! I too get curious about "where are they now". He was a can't miss in his dad's eyes. I joined this site wondering if my kid could make Little Leagues All-stars. That became making the HS team, that became wondering if college ball was possible. I'll make my last post the day I'm convinced the baseball is over so everyone will know what happened. One data point in the millions of kids who ever aspired to pro-ball. Each one is a unique story.
OP's older son was a 4-2-4 transfer student in college: one year at an SEC school, one year at a JUCO, and year at a strong mid major D1. Was drafted in the late rounds but did not advance. I don't believe the younger son played after high school.
Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section.
You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes
When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully
Go44dad posted:There was just a little bit of Bilal in his posts, with a slightly different syntax. Same vein, though.
I think Bilal is the only one I "follow". Miss the guy.
Yeah, he is classic. BTW just checked and his 2017 is not committed yet per PG.
whole heartedly agree with wanting to know how things turn out. I was going to follow up the Poll on camps etc, with a thread on where 2017 ED kids ended up, AFTER they get their official admissions documents.
nxt lvl posted:Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section.
You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes
When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully
Then you hang around and give advice after your son is done playing. You have an administrator change the absurd number of posts to "member since ...."
RJM posted:nxt lvl posted:Everyone of us will have a journey. Each journey unique and enlightening in its own respect. The stories on here....one of the big reasons to check in often, are gripping and many times heart breaking. The worst thing about this site is NOT knowing the outcome for some of the kids. We need to have some conclusions to most of these stories. We need a " Where are they now" section.
You start out with 10 + POSTS and by the time your kid is off to college your number is 2,000 POSTS or more. I am 2 years in with another almost 2 years and to my surprise my POSTS are over 1,000! So many questions and so much information in one place by families who have walked in your shoes
When my kid finishes up in high school and plays at the next level I will keep posting until his last at bat. Then I will tell the story of our full journey. The ups and downs. The highs and lows. The scout talk and the showcase talk. I will tell where he showcased and went to camps, and which tournaments. But most importantly there will be closure for those interested.......hopefully
Then you hang around and give advice after your son is done playing. You have an administrator change the absurd number of posts to "member since ...."
Didn't know how to change the # of posts note. Thanks for the tip!
Agreed. I will give the benefit of all my experience to the countless others who find this site and are desperate in their need for help and direction. ( I know I was ) I have most definitely benefitted and would pass on any and everything I have learned. Also I feel the absolute need to help.
I am one of the parents who have experience with college athletics from a player standpoint and from a parent aspect with other kids who played D1 sports other than baseball. Baseball is much different than the revenue generating sports. It has so many things that need to be learned that can not be transferred from recruiting knowledge of other sports.
And , yes, I will have the admistrator change the number of Posts from X,000 to "member since...".