My oldest son started traveling at 12. I have mixed feelings....and I may get into that later....but what I wanted to address was the issue of the younger siblings.....My younger daughters were 6 and 4 at the time. They grew up at various sporting locations...football and baseball fields, basketball courts, etc....They loved it. They soaked it all in. Both of my daughters (currently 12 and 14) play travel softball (much nuttier than baseball, let me tell you). They both have such knowledge of the game of baseball it really isn't even funny. Talk about an "unfair advantage".
Right about now, I am burnt out. Not sure if it's due to all that we've been through lately, or if it's my age and all
....or just the thousands of games that I've attended....My daughters can't get enough, especially the younger one. Last year at 10, she played in 108 games. !!! She wanted more and couldn't wait until fall ball started two weeks later. Of course, it helps to be on a winning team...winning is contagious and fun....
We turned traveling to tournaments into "family vacations"--and coaches would ask us, "Where do you guys go????"
There is a lot to be said for playing locally, but it sure is fun knowing kids and playing with kids around the country.
And speaking of fun...I'll echo what 06catcherdad said about the having fun....Some of these travel coaches succk all the life out of these young kids. At that point, it sure isn't worth it. It better be fun, by golly, or it's not worth it at all. And they need to learn, too... and not that life isn't fair or what daddy-ball or mommy-ball is all about. When these little kids learn the fundamentals WELL and HAVE FUN while playing, it is a great experience for them and in turn, for at least these two parents.
Knowing what we know now, and knowing how much money we spent (ha! at the snack bar alone, never mind fast food joints. Thank God for Subway! And coupons to Subway!!!!) I'm not sure that we would have started when we did....but when I asked my son the day after his Tommy John surgery if it was all worth it, he said YES! very exuberantly.
And the beat goes on.....My 14 year old daughter had her first practice of the new softball season today and the younger one was jealous...She doesn't start for another week....
And the beat goes on....and on....and on.......
P.S. I may get into the other side of my feelings about this later....if I get depressed or angry about something....