@ABSORBER You just don't stop do you. You're making a shit-load of assumptions. The first one being that I am not seeking other advice than on this page, and that other people - who have a lot more experience in this than you - might have said something different. Here's who my family has talked to about this:
- two other D1 coaches: an associate head coach at a P5 and pitching coach at an Ivy
- three athletic directors: one each at a D1, D2, and D3
- one VP at the NCAA; one policy staffer at the NCAA
- two Junior college coaches
- admissions officers at 7 colleges
- admissions officer at one high school for a PG option
I have appreciated and responded to most of the advice I have gotten on this page because even if it's not the path we chose, it has been given with empathy and thoughtfulness; it is your condescending tone and attitude that has been problematic.