I've seen a number of threads regarding kids having conflicts with HS coaches, and I thought "that'll never happen to 2019Son, he gets along with all of his coaches . . ." Not only was I wrong, but I was wrong immediately!!
Here's the background:
- 2019Son goes to a private school with an exceptional baseball program in the highest classification in California. Nearly every senior goes on to play college baseball, with the majority (~80% recently) going D1. Quite a few high draft picks as well. He played for the HS coaches on a travel team in 8th grade. They were thrilled when he was able to get into the school.
- The head varsity coach invited 2019Son and me into a meeting right before school started, to go over the program, where they see 2019Son contributing, etc. In the course of this 30-minute meetings, one of the comments he made is that when it comes to pitching they prioritize command first, and then later try to have the kids add velocity. He also told me (outside of 2019Son's hearing) that they like his arm and his bat -- thus, they see him as a two-way player.
- 2019Son has always tried to throw as hard as he can. He is what I describe as a "momentum pitcher" -- he brings a lot of momentum down the hill. He has a tendency to fall off towards the first base side (he is a RHP). His control is decent -- he averages about 60% strikes, with the range being 55% (on a bad day) to 65% (on a good day).
- Pitching coach was a legendary high school pitcher around 15 years ago. Was a command-and-control guy and just dominated in high school -- one of the best high school pitchers around. Didn't have a ton of velocity. Went to a JC and then pitched a couple of years for a NAIA school, throwing maybe 25 innings for them, total.
- So far the coaches have had 2019Son play JV scrimmages (there are three teams, Varsity, JV, and Freshmen). He is one of only 4 freshmen playing JV, although I believe another one will join when he comes back from injury. It's only been a couple of games, but 2019Son has pitched (0 runs in a few innings) and hit well (2 for 5 with a walk). I believe that the coaches intend for 2019Son to play JV this year (2016), and to compete for a varsity spot next year (2017).
- 2019Son is currently 5'11" and 142 lbs. (Note: real height and weight, not adding 2 inches like I see happen so often). He is still 14, and has another 4 months before he turns 15. I expect that by the time he graduates high school he will be 6"1" or maybe 6"2" and somewhere between 180 and 200 lbs. Although this isn't really relevant for pitching, I also expect that he'll run a 6.8 or 6.9 sixty-yard dash by then (he was at 7.4 in July at the USA Baseball tournament). He is a left-handed hitter.
- He throws reasonably hard for his age -- good, but not great. He touched 77.4 mph at a pitching facility in July, and was sitting at 75-76 mph at the USA baseball tournament in Arizona in July. He throws a two-seamer, not a four-seamer, so it may be that he could throw a bit harder with a four-seamer (my understanding is that for most pitchers there is a difference of a couple mph). I do think that as he puts on 40-60 lbs in high school, he will likely add velocity -- though of course that is speculation at this point.
- 2019Son made a very high profile high school travel team about five weeks ago. Close to 100% of this program goes on to play college baseball, lots of kids drafted, a number of MLB players, etc.
With that background, here's what's going on. His high school coaches have made it clear that they don't want him pitching for the travel team, at least not until next summer. They also don't want him to go to the travel team's practices (he has 3 HS practices per week), though he can play games on weekends (just not pitch). The pitching coach has told 2019Son that he needs to "control his momentum," and not fall off towards first base at all. In bullpen sessions, the pitching coach has placed a trash can where 2019Son would fall off, causing 2019Son to step towards third base (and thus throw across his body) in an attempt to not hit the trash can. 2019Son is reluctant to change his mechanics, and really reluctant not to try to throw as hard as he can. The pitching coach has also told 2019Son that he will learn a four-seamer. 2019Son has been told by the pitching coach that "he has better stuff than other kids, but it won't matter if he can't command it" and has been told a number of times by the pitching coach and by a few other coaches in the program that he has a ton of potential.
With respect to the four-seamer, I think that's straightforward -- I told 2019Son that it can only help him to learn one. And there is no good reason why he doesn't throw one -- he just felt more comfortable with a two-seamer, so that's what he threw.
With respect to the travel team, also straightforward -- he is following his HS coaches' instructions to the letter. I appreciate the coaches' concern about overthrowing, injury, etc.
With respect to pitching mechanics, here are 2019Son's options as I see them (and would appreciate any advice):
(1) Change his mechanics, reduce his momentum (if he can't stop falling off at his current momentum), do what his pitching coach wants, and hope it doesn't cost him too much velocity (or, if it does, that the velocity comes back quickly).
(2) Try to have a discussion with the pitching coach about mechanics. (Note: I'd be surprised if this goes well.)
(3) Continue to throw the way he feels comfortable, and hope that the results are good enough to not hurt him when it comes to playing time.
(4) Express a desire to be a position player only. Pitch in the summer for the travel team.
Any other ideas? Any advice?
For what it's worth, my view is that these types of conflicts result because the coaches have short and medium-term goals (winning as many games as possible this year and over the next few years) and the player may have additional long-term goals (e.g., playing in college at a high level). By way of example, a pitcher throwing 84 with absolute pinpoint command (say, averaging 1 or 2 walks per 9 innings) is likely worth more to his high school team that a pitcher throwing 89 with decent but not great command (say, averaging 4 walks per 9 innings). OTOH, the latter kid is often going to be more attractive to colleges.
Sorry for the long post.